A few days back was reading an article.
It was about a girl and her so called happy marriage . At least that is what she wanted to show the world through her fb profile. Her happy pictures ,happy quotes said it all. Unless one day the news of her murder broke the myth. It was her loving husband,who confessed of murdering her along with her two baby girls. Pathetic,isn't it.
It raised the question ,then why this false pretension? Psychologists have come to the solution that it may be her last attempt to save a nearly broken marriage or to conceal her unhappy life from the world.
This made me remember a friend of mine. We grew up in the same locality but went to different schools. But same college and university. She was a good student,good person even,with depth in thought but we sometimes had problems together. But glad that we are stuck together even now .
Let's assume her name is Tina. So Tina was a good singer too. A good boy fell in love with her in the univ days. But it did not last long. A little misunderstanding, and it ended. She did not take long to move on ,fall in love again and married.
But did she really move on? I think no. Every time we conversed over the phone the name of the boy would surface. She confessed of missing him and his fine tastes. She went to a wedding just to have a glimpse of him though she was neglected and insulted. During the initial days of fb she wanted me to befriend him and give her his details. But when I asked her to stay away from a seemingly happily married man ,she was angry.
She started posting pics of her bungalow ( company given though),her car( that too),her loving images of her "hubby" (the word I dislike the most). I silently laughed and liked and appreciated in my remarks. I knew the reason. But prayed a little too. Remembered a friend's word. The boy said after she left her,"Just see,she will never be happy."
I pray for the happiness of them both.
Everyone in this life deserves to be happy.
We have just one life to live. And happiness matters.
It was about a girl and her so called happy marriage . At least that is what she wanted to show the world through her fb profile. Her happy pictures ,happy quotes said it all. Unless one day the news of her murder broke the myth. It was her loving husband,who confessed of murdering her along with her two baby girls. Pathetic,isn't it.
It raised the question ,then why this false pretension? Psychologists have come to the solution that it may be her last attempt to save a nearly broken marriage or to conceal her unhappy life from the world.
This made me remember a friend of mine. We grew up in the same locality but went to different schools. But same college and university. She was a good student,good person even,with depth in thought but we sometimes had problems together. But glad that we are stuck together even now .
Let's assume her name is Tina. So Tina was a good singer too. A good boy fell in love with her in the univ days. But it did not last long. A little misunderstanding, and it ended. She did not take long to move on ,fall in love again and married.
But did she really move on? I think no. Every time we conversed over the phone the name of the boy would surface. She confessed of missing him and his fine tastes. She went to a wedding just to have a glimpse of him though she was neglected and insulted. During the initial days of fb she wanted me to befriend him and give her his details. But when I asked her to stay away from a seemingly happily married man ,she was angry.
She started posting pics of her bungalow ( company given though),her car( that too),her loving images of her "hubby" (the word I dislike the most). I silently laughed and liked and appreciated in my remarks. I knew the reason. But prayed a little too. Remembered a friend's word. The boy said after she left her,"Just see,she will never be happy."
I pray for the happiness of them both.
Everyone in this life deserves to be happy.
We have just one life to live. And happiness matters.
